This a hugely useful list of all kinds of stuff that Alienators do to separate us from our kids. I haven’t counted yet, but my Ex has done 76 out of the 167 items. If you take out the red flags she hasn’t exhibited that were flags for small children and flags with step parents (neither of which apply for me), the ratio gets much higher — almost 76% of the items that would apply, have been exhibited by my ex. That’s a staggering number of red flags.
Might be a useful list for others undergoing alienation…