I was always committed to allowing my wife to be a stay at home mom. It was our dream from before we got married. Sad that this fact was used against me by my ex before and during the divorce. “I haven’t had a job in 17 years — I need full support for the next 22 years.” And comments made to the kids while we were married. “Your dad just can’t be there for you like I can.” But not said in a way that made them realize it was because I was working to support our income, instead, it was a comment made with derision as if I didn’t want to be there for them.
I would have given my left arm for a letter like this from the wife.
http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2016/08/29/letter-to-my-breadwinner-husband.html
Notes from an Alienated Dad 